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‘Diagnosed sociopath’s’ dating strategy to make any relationship work is unpredictable

It’s hard enough to unravel our thoughts while on a date, let alone understand what the other person is thinking.

However, a “diagnosed sociopath” details what she thinks when she’s on a date that any average human couldn’t imagine. Like narcissists with calculative moves to suck you back into a relationship, sociopaths always get what they want.

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‘Diagnosed sociopath’ reveals her dating strategy

Kanika Batra is a “diagnosed sociopath”, known for sharing her experiences and opinions as a person with Anti-Social Personality Disorder.

Unlike normal humans who seek meaning and fulfillment in a relationship, Kanika and fellow sociopaths are calculative with their moves, to get what they want from anyone.

Especially when it comes to dating, her mind follows a specific thought process, and it applies to both men and women because she claims she’s bisexual.

She shares in her TikTok video that she always takes people at face value and she means it “literally”. She claims she’s so shallow that she wouldn’t continue dating someone without sharp features.

“If you’re not going to have a nice cheekbone or nose, I am not going to be there in the first place,” she says.

Once she senses someone has enough value, Kanika takes time to observe them without revealing much about herself. This is why an expert warns of daters who blindly agree with you on everything.

She then goes into the “logistics” of making the relationship work with someone who “is worth it”, by lying and manipulating without an ounce of guilt.

How she ‘love bombs’ her targets

Love bombing is an extremely manipulative, even abusive tactic used by toxic people to keep you hooked to them. It’s when a dater showers you with compliments and makes empty promises early on in the relationship.

This is a common tactic narcissists and sociopaths use to lure someone into a relationship with them and Kanika says, she does it too, but it isn’t always intentional.

At first, she love bombs the other person because she is often excited about the new date or relationship, which can become calculative if the sociopath doesn’t want to lose you. They use this as a weapon to cast control on you.

“We don’t love a real person. We create an image in our head of you – something that you can never live up to,” she says without hesitance. However, they can’t stick with the same person once their true colors are revealed and the excitement wears off, so they discard the old target and look for a new one.

Kanika Batra is a former Miss Universe and Miss World finalist, who identifies herself as a diagnosed high-functioning sociopath. She discusses an array of topics related to her condition om her social media channels, including the tactics she uses to seduce a stranger.