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You’ve dodged a bullet if woman doesn’t follow up after canceling date, says relationship expert�
It’s happened to most of us – a date gets canceled at the last minute for no legitimate reason. However, it doesn’t have you affect you anymore.
Not everybody is cut out for dating. Some are walking red flags, while others are too shut down to form a genuine connection. But thank your lucky stars if you are rejected even before the romance can bloom.
When a woman doesn’t follow up
A lot of people tend to pull the plug on date plans at the last minute, and it is very common among women. Typically, the man on the receiving end might end up feeling rejected, making him question his worth.
But, a piece of practical advice from a dating and relationship coach will make you look at the same situation differently and you’ll be thankful next time a woman decides to not go ahead with the first date.
Although it stings when a woman refuses to go out with you without stating a genuine reason, you don’t have to beat yourself over it because “you’ve dodged a bullet,” says Gracie.
As she explains, a dater who doesn’t bother to follow up after a canceled date is simply not worth your time or energy. And if a woman can’t go out with you as planned because of an actual emergency, she would make the effort to reschedule; it’s not on you.
How a man should react
If a woman cancels on plans with you without saying why, simply respond “No worries, I appreciate the heads up.” And no, don’t initiate another date or ponder the reasons for canceling.
“Pushing for another date only puts you in a position of chasing after someone who doesn’t reciprocate the interest,” Gracie says.
By taking a step back, not only are you making her realize your worth, but it also shows that you are confident enough to move on without seeming desperate for answers.
Gracie is a dating and relationship expert specifically helping men get unstuck in their dating lives and learn how to attract girlfriend-worthy women. She also offers online dating courses on demand.
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