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Science says that all men fit into three categories – one complains of isolation
Science says that all men fit into three distinct categories, those being neo-traditionalist, egalitarian, and progressive.
What it means to be a man is tirelessly debated by experts and the people who claim to be experts on the internet. Such conversations have sparked moments like the Soft Guy Era and the rise of the Tradwife movement.
Egalitarian was the biggest group
In 2024 we seem to edging closer and closer to a world where traditional gender roles and expectations are obliterated for a more equal positioning. Nonetheless, there are still many people who believe a womans place is in the kitchen.
Researchers at the University of British Columbia in Canada recently explored the ideals of straight men in a study that was published in the Social Science & Medicine journal in August.
We set out to understand how different types of masculinities shape mens relationships and their mental health, Dr. John Oliffe said.
The first type they identified was neo-traditionalist, with men in this group usually following traditional gender roles, such as being the provider and protector in the relationship.
The second category was egalitarian, described as a man seeking a more equal partnership, with emphasis on mutuality and measurable give and take.
Men designated as progressive typically work on building gender equity in the partnership through regular, purposeful conversations with their partner to adjust who does what.
Which group do you fall into?
The study highlighted some clear issues with men
The research soon found that only 24% identified as neo-traditionalists, suggesting antiquated ideals are on the outs. Interestingly, half of all those interviewed purposefully distanced themselves from traditional thoughts in a bid to move away from what is often branded as toxic masculinity.
Though toxic masculinity has become a blanket term of sorts, covering a large area of morals and ideals, its often used to describe acts that were the norm hundreds of years ago.
Meanwhile, 26% identified as progressive both in and outside relationships. They pay special attention to social justice , which we already know is a divisive issue in 2024.
What we found was that these masculine types were associated with different benefits as well as challenges, Dr. Oliffe noted.
One such example is progressive men, who experienced better mental health from championing womens causes but feelings of isolation from other men.
While men are becoming more involved in promoting gender equity, little is known about how younger men work to build partnerships in their private lives, he added. With this research, we hope we have helped map that uncharted space and point a way forward for healthier relationships that promote the health of men, their partners, and families.
