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Most attractive quality in men is ‘harder than IQ’ to spot, says dating coach
What one woman finds desirable in a man may not be as appealing to another. If you thought intelligence and good looks could draw you to someone, there seems to be another ‘more attractive’ quality.
There are specific adorable ways men expect women to show affection. Just like that, women expect men to be emotionally available – a quality that’s hard to spot.
Dating coach reveals ‘most attractive quality’ in men
Ambition, humor, intelligence, and more are the top traits we wish to see in a romantic partner. But his emotional quotient overpowers all else, according to a dating coach who focuses on helping single men find meaningful relationships.
Kevin claims in a video that women are most attracted to men who are emotionally available and we wouldn’t disagree. Although it’s often talked about and something most women desire, determining if a man you like possesses the said quality can be tricky. So, Kevin shows how to spot it.
He listens to you
Having a man sit across the table from you and look you in the eyes in the most romantic way is not the same as paying attention to what you have to say.
An emotionally available man will listen to you and remember details from the conversation that matters most to you.
He can sense your emotions
This might be tricky at first and take time, but a partner who genuinely cares about you will learn to sense your emotions “without you needing to tell them,” says Kevin.
He takes accountability for his words
You’ve dodged a bullet if a man calls it quits on your relationship because he can’t be held accountable for his actions and words.
It’s a toxic trait among emotionally unavailable partners, especially narcissists, who fail to see how their actions can affect you. Run for the hills if you spot this trait.
He can take control of his emotions
Being able to take control of your emotions is as important as being emotionally available. If a man knows to regulate his feelings towards you regardless of external factors or triggers, he’s definitely a keeper.
