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‘Biggest sign’ of insecurity you wouldn’t see in a ‘confident man’, says dating coach�
Personal insecurities, even though complex, can be dealt with therapy and right support. But there’s only so much you can do if your romantic partner is an insecure man.
Often relationships with insecure men can be complicated, draining, and toxic in some situations. A relationship coach says you better run for the hills if any of these red flags surface.
Signs the man you’re dating is insure
People grapple with insecurities for different reasons. For some it stems from childhood trauma or past trouble, and for others it could due to mental health conditions or certain personality traits.
But when a person is insecure in a relationship, their behavior and reaction hurt the person they are dating and it becomes difficult to navigate relationship with such men. So watch out for these 5 signs.
You can’t have guy friends
A confident man trusts his lady with anything and anyone. But a man living with insecurities will be threatened by any guy you talk to and may even question your integrity.
Vanessa says he will be jealous of men in your life and can disapprove of your relationship with them. If he isn’t telling it to you directly, he’s being passive aggressive or throwing a fit.
He won’t stop bragging
It doesn’t matter if he’s working out in present, but he’ll never stop bragging about it, even if it’s been years since he picked a dumbbell.
They seek validation with exaggerated details about their life which isn’t true. An insure man would never hesitate to talk about lifestyle he doesn’t have.
Tries to look wealthy
According to the dating coach, insure men try to come across as wealthy and rich, so they wear branded clothes to make himself “look really expensive.”
“He’s going to know all the brands. You might even not know but he’s going to know what they are,” she says. They don’t wear it only look like they are worth millions, but they expect others to know it as well.
Vanessa concludes her video with the “biggest sign” of an insure man and if you haven’t guessed it already – “he’s going to cheat on you.”
A popular belief about this form of infidelity backed by psychology that insecure man lack confidence, hence they seek approval and validation from people other than their partners.
Vanessa is a dating and relationship coach, with her content dedicated to helping women navigate femininity and complications of dating life. She also promotes women hygiene product on her official TikTok account with health and beauty tips.
