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6 strategies for navigating different political opinions in your relationship from a dating expert
Addressing political differences within the confines of a relationship is never a simple task, though hopefully it could be made easier by the 6 strategies recently shared by Flirtinis relationship expert.
The Presidential election is edging closer and closer, and while it could be anybodys game, there is a clear division in the American public. The tense atmosphere is bound to produce confrontation, and though weve already learned how to speak with friends, navigating differing beliefs in a relationship, someone youre spending your life with, is another thing entirely.
Prioritize respect over agreement, the relationship expert said
Theres some truth to the idiom that you dont talk politics with those close to you. They are incredibly divisive issues that just seem to bring out the worst in people.
But its also hard to ignore politics when it can so directly affect your life, which is particularly important within minority communities where peoples rights are called into question.
Of course, there are times when political differences would (and should) sink a relationship. You shouldnt stay with a person purely because you see political differences as trivial, and you shouldnt break up with someone because you think its expected of you because of a difference in political opinion.
Following a recent survey, Anastasiya Pochotna, a relationship expert at dating app Flirtini, spoke about how to navigate political differences in your relationship.
Its natural to want your partner to share your views, but its important to remember that a relationship doesnt need agreement on every issue to be strong, she said. It is essential to honor your partner’s right to have differing viewpoints. Understand that different people have different life experiences and that having different opinions does not always indicate bad character.
She continued to explain that you should stay away from assumptions and personal attacks that could serve to isolate your partner. You can focus on political issues without pulling in personal anecdotes and examples, so its best to keep away from phrases like you always” and “you never” unless you want to drag on the argument for more time.
You and your partner probably have a lot in common, even though you have different political opinions, she added. You maybe have same hobby, career ambitions, or ethical principles. Emphasize these shared values in your conversations. Recognizing that you have more in common than you might think can help bridge the gap and remind you why youre together in the first place.
Make time outside of politics
If tensions are particularly high, its time to cash in your holiday at work and spend some much needed 1-on-1 time together. Anastasiya suggested flirting as a reasonable strategy and what better time than when cozying up on the couch?
Engage in shared interests and pursuits to prevent politics from affecting your relationship. Whether it’s going on a hike, making a meal, or watching a movie together, doing something you both enjoy can bring you closer together and highlight the non-political aspects of your relationship, Anastasiya Pochotna added.
While it obviously depends on the political view in question, you might consider trying out your partners political views. Take a few steps in their shoes are you might see them in a different light.
The expert explained: “Over time, and particularly as you learn from one another, your perspectives and your partner’s may change.
Maintain a flexible attitude and be ready to reevaluate your own convictions. Rather than bending over backward to appease your partner, try being receptive to change and fresh ideas.
